7 check list. ^^

7 Check List!
@ Romans 12:1-2

Function: to guide us with perfection > Phillipians 1:9-11

Here we gooo...
tips: in each number, you have to put a score. min 60% > it's the lowest score! :)

1. Commitment to grow personally in Christ. @ Phillipians 2:12
> do not see the glory in the anointing, but growth in the anointing.
> looking for people who has faith and he/she must walking with God, not by the gift!!
> If it isn't balance, hubungannya jadi ngga sehat, dan salah satu dari mereka akan "nggandoli" pasangannya.. ><

2. The Vision of his/her life is to please God. @ Phillipians 1:21-22a
> you have to find productive people. He/she must know where he/she wants to go OR he/she has to have a life target that he/she will achieve it.
ex.
If you're married to a fulltimer, you have to make sure that he/she has a life target > to please God with his/her life.
OR God is please or happy with his/her vision. and the important thing is he/she has to knows his/her own way!

3. Honest and Sincere. @ Luke 16:10
> orangnya ngga berbelit-belit!

4. Mature and Responsible. @ 1 Corinthians 13:11
> age can not be a measure of one's manhood.
> you have to know the world view.
> do not just look by the cover, but you have to look inside first :)
> and find out, is he/she a gentleman or a noblewoman or not!

5. Healthy self-image. @ Matthew 22:39
> your partner can not love you, if your partner can not love himself/herself.
> he/she has to have a good self-image.
> he/she has to take care of him/herself. it means have to be strong!
> NO possessive > unreasonable possessive.

6. Positive attitude in life. @ Phillipians 4:4
> jangan mau sama orang yang suka melukai dirinya sendiri. it's not worth it ><
> jangan mau juga ama orang yang suka ngomelan ==' percaya deh, ngga enak banget.. hahaha (sama yg normal2 sajaaa).
> you have to know, how's your partner attitude..? ^^

7. Fall in LOVE. Jatuh Cinta! @ Song of Solomon 8:5-7
> you guys, are having personal chemistry.
> you have to FALL IN LOVE each other!
ex.
If the man has fall in love 100%, so the woman also 100% too.. aww sweet! ^^

The last check list (the seventh), is the list which will bring you to the marriage. It's not only about character, but romance! and don't forget, you must have self-control too.
There is an anonymous saying, "Marry with your bestfriend." > it is not same with married to your old friend! really really not equal, friends.. :)
Jadi, ada friendship yang saling menghormati satu sama lain, saling menjaga, dan lama-lama... they're fall in love each other! ^^ so sweeetttt~
*ohyaaa.. It's not only about love too, bur also about your beautiful relationship in Christ!*
In marriage, it's not only about friendship, but you need love. If you marry someone, but you don't love him/her... you bring yourself into temptation!!

sincerely,
created by Joan. 21 January 2011. Copied from Mr. Redo's notes hahaha~
from Ps. Philip Mantofa's session.
One Love Til The End! ^^