forever grateful.

this is my second project from my lecturer. about web design.

duration: 4 hours. nonstop.

effects: mata sangat CAPEK! >< 

but, honestly... I'm so glad with this.. :)

Thank God. Forever grateful.

wait

      I was scared, I was scared
      Tired and under prepared
      But I'll wait for it
      If you go, if you go
      And leave me down here on my own
      Then I'll wait for you
      Coldplay - In My Place


wait. it is the word which is scary for me. maybe for somebody too :)
I have taken a commitment to wait. I'm afraid if I can't keep this commitment until the time comes.. *fiuh* 
if you asked, how long? ha! a year, friends.. could you imagine that? hihihi.
But I'm so sure, with God besides me, I can do it! hahaha.. *menyemangati diri sendiri*


I'm just thinking like this.. 
"For those who faithful in their commitment, then they will get something worth for." 
it is true. beneran. ngga bohong. you have to try if you really want, of course.. :)

7 check list. ^^

7 Check List!
@ Romans 12:1-2

Function: to guide us with perfection > Phillipians 1:9-11

Here we gooo...
tips: in each number, you have to put a score. min 60% > it's the lowest score! :)

1. Commitment to grow personally in Christ. @ Phillipians 2:12
> do not see the glory in the anointing, but growth in the anointing.
> looking for people who has faith and he/she must walking with God, not by the gift!!
> If it isn't balance, hubungannya jadi ngga sehat, dan salah satu dari mereka akan "nggandoli" pasangannya.. ><

2. The Vision of his/her life is to please God. @ Phillipians 1:21-22a
> you have to find productive people. He/she must know where he/she wants to go OR he/she has to have a life target that he/she will achieve it.
ex.
If you're married to a fulltimer, you have to make sure that he/she has a life target > to please God with his/her life.
OR God is please or happy with his/her vision. and the important thing is he/she has to knows his/her own way!

3. Honest and Sincere. @ Luke 16:10
> orangnya ngga berbelit-belit!

4. Mature and Responsible. @ 1 Corinthians 13:11
> age can not be a measure of one's manhood.
> you have to know the world view.
> do not just look by the cover, but you have to look inside first :)
> and find out, is he/she a gentleman or a noblewoman or not!

5. Healthy self-image. @ Matthew 22:39
> your partner can not love you, if your partner can not love himself/herself.
> he/she has to have a good self-image.
> he/she has to take care of him/herself. it means have to be strong!
> NO possessive > unreasonable possessive.

6. Positive attitude in life. @ Phillipians 4:4
> jangan mau sama orang yang suka melukai dirinya sendiri. it's not worth it ><
> jangan mau juga ama orang yang suka ngomelan ==' percaya deh, ngga enak banget.. hahaha (sama yg normal2 sajaaa).
> you have to know, how's your partner attitude..? ^^

7. Fall in LOVE. Jatuh Cinta! @ Song of Solomon 8:5-7
> you guys, are having personal chemistry.
> you have to FALL IN LOVE each other!
ex.
If the man has fall in love 100%, so the woman also 100% too.. aww sweet! ^^

The last check list (the seventh), is the list which will bring you to the marriage. It's not only about character, but romance! and don't forget, you must have self-control too.
There is an anonymous saying, "Marry with your bestfriend." > it is not same with married to your old friend! really really not equal, friends.. :)
Jadi, ada friendship yang saling menghormati satu sama lain, saling menjaga, dan lama-lama... they're fall in love each other! ^^ so sweeetttt~
*ohyaaa.. It's not only about love too, bur also about your beautiful relationship in Christ!*
In marriage, it's not only about friendship, but you need love. If you marry someone, but you don't love him/her... you bring yourself into temptation!!

sincerely,
created by Joan. 21 January 2011. Copied from Mr. Redo's notes hahaha~
from Ps. Philip Mantofa's session.
One Love Til The End! ^^